Lovely calm therapist who paces the conversation to make me feel comfortable sharing my feelings when im ready
Richard Cox, BACP
Experienced mental health professional
Provides online counseling through BetterHelp
At a glance
Richard is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.
- 4.8 stars
- Clients are very satisfied with Richard. View 14 reviews
- Great news, Richard is accepting new clients!
- He is normally fully-booked.
- Speaks English
- Offers Telehealth visits
- Licensed in United Kingdom
Recent reviews
A very kind and considerate person, Richard’s calm demeanour always makes me feel comfortable and at ease, this allows me to open up more and be honest with myself. I always feel listened to but never judged.
More about Richard
- 7 years' experience
- Male
- BACP
'"Richard's caring and insightful support each week helped me to cope with a very stressful and anxious period over several months and identify underlying patterns that were holding me back."
Hello and welcome
I'm Richard and my outlook towards therapy is simple: we explore your past to understand your present to make way for a better future.
Together, we’ll untangle the complications of your history, straighten your story, and support your self-discovery. We go from arrested development to healthy living—we heal beyond our history.
I work in what’s called a psychodynamic way: Psycho = Mind. Dynamic = Movement. Together, we do some movement of the mind.
Insightful Therapy
Healing begins with insight and awareness. We work at depth, exploring patterns, feeling feelings and experiencing emotions. Together, we make the unconscious conscious.
"Thought-provoking and thought-resolving."
Compassionate Presence
I listen without judgment. My silence is your space. Your pain is our starting point. Therapy is a trusting relationship we co-create—and our relationship heals.
“Helpful, insightful and extremely easy to talk to.”
Accessible Care
Whether via video, phone, or text—I'm with you. No office walls—just real connection from one human being to another.
Healing Wisdom
Pain isn't the enemy—it’s the catalyst. We come to therapy because we’re suffering. Our work is about transforming suffering into growth.
Trauma is buried, but it’s buried alive
Healing is anxiety provoking, messy and uncomfortable. Together, we’ll work through unresolved conflicts and buried emotions to help you experience, accept, and move forward.
Why Choose Richard?
Holistic Approach: Mind, body, spirit, and the symbolic. We come to realise our symptoms are reactions to historical adversity. Breakdowns can be breakthroughs, and our triggers are portals to deeper understanding.
I’m less interested in what’s "wrong" with you and more curious about what happened to you, where you’re hurting, and what keeps you stuck.
Safe and Explorative Space
Vulnerability is strength. Here, you are seen and heard. We explore your memories, dreams, hopes, and desires. You are more than your name, job title, or past. You are not what happened to you—you are what you choose to become.
Ancient Insight, Modern Tools
Traditional therapy on a modern platform. Freud meets FaceTime.
Your Ally in Healing
I won’t fix you. I walk beside you. Healing is a shared journey. Let’s rewrite your story and discover your truth.
What to Expect in Our First Session
Our first session is our time to get to know each other. We’ll talk about what’s bringing you to therapy, your goals. I’ll help you start noticing what you feel, how anxiety may interfere, the ways you’ve learned to cope and how these ways of coping could be holding you back in life right now.
This is your time, and your experience matters.
Richard Cox, Reg. MBACP
Clients describe me as formal, direct, and flexible.
My Commitment
I’m dedicated to providing excellence in therapy with a consistent, grounded, and compassionate dedication to practice.
Experience
I have supported clients navigating early psychological wounding, unresolved historical psychological difficulties, stress, anxiety, relationships, family conflicts, trauma, abuse, coping with life changes. My practice is shaped by a deep respect for the courage it takes to come to therapy.
The Therapy FAD
My work is increasingly shaped by what I call the Therapy FAD:
• Feelings are waiting to be felt.
• Anxiety isn’t a thought—it’s a bodily state.
• Defences are how we handle difficult feelings.
For more on this, you can read my post on therapists.com: “The Therapy FAD: Rethinking Our Feelings, Anxiety and Defences Across Modalities.”
Background
I have previously worked in mental health management, served as a director and board member, and represented community mental health charities.
I am a registered BACP therapist based in the UK with over 8 years of counselling experience and more than 3,000 hours of clinical work. I know what it means to sit in your chair—Because I had some historical wounds to heal too.
"There is nothing wrong with you. You have patterns to unlearn, new behaviors to embody, and wounds to heal. But there is nothing wrong with the core of you."
Let’s begin the work that your future self will thank you for...
Specialties
Treatment Approaches
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Existential Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Licenses
- BACP · United Kingdom · 394009 · Expires April 2026
About online counseling
- Affordable.
- Pay a low flat fee.
- Convenient.
- Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
- Available now.
- There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.
Online counseling allows you to receive care from a mental health practitioner via phone, video chat, or instant messaging. It is convenient for those who may have trouble getting to or would prefer not to have in-person therapy appointments. Starting at $65 per week, online counseling is generally more affordable than in-person counseling. A study by researchers at University of California, Berkeley found that online counseling can be just as effective as face-to-face therapy while being more convenient, affordable, and accessible.
Reviews for Richard Cox
All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.
Overall rating:
Lovely calm therapist who paces the conversation to make me feel comfortable sharing my feelings when im ready
A very kind and considerate person, Richard’s calm demeanour always makes me feel comfortable and at ease, this allows me to open up more and be honest with myself. I always feel listened to but never judged.
Richard and I have achieved something I never in my wildest dreams thought possible. I went from being plagued by self hatred, shame, guilt, thinking I don't deserve help, to a complete change of perspective, and most importantly hope for the future. If there is one thing I appreciate the most out of everything, it's this. The ability to hope. And to see myself in a more positive light despite my mistake. Richard's style, is asking you the right questions. He'll answer some of your questions, sure, but mostly he'll respond with another question, and blow your mind when you figure out the answer yourself. Sometimes I found mysel thinking "Now why is he asking me this, how is this relevant?", but trust me, it always is. There's always rhyme and reason to the questions you get. Thank you, Richard, for your patience and help with this journey!
Richard is really helping me to put things into perspective and is a good listener.
Richard really tries to get to know you and works with you, would recommend
Really respectful and listens to everything I’m saying and makes me feel at ease with a process I was so nervous about starting
I find talking to Richard really helpful and even on my bad days I don't feel judged. I do feel these sessions are helping me grow and will continue to use these sessions to understand myself and the world better.
My therapist has been incredibly supportive and understanding throughout our sessions. Their professionalism and empathy have created a safe space for me to explore my thoughts and feelings. I highly recommend my therapist to anyone seeking compassionate and effective online therapy.
Since working with Richard, I’ve been able to manage my thoughts and rumination which was something that was holding me back in life. Just by having Richard there to listen to me, interjecting to ask the right questions has led me to figure out for myself what was causing this to happen. I would highly recommend to anyone.
Great listener.
Richard is a very unique man. He is very kind, smart and a great listener. I feel very comfortable sharing personal details with Richard, he is very approachable, light-hearted and funny. I look forward to my meetings with him every week and I love the fact he can ask me the right questions to get me to dig deeper into my mind to figure out thought patterns and past experiences which may be causing certain challenges in my life. This is exactly what I was looking for from a therapist. Therapy isn’t something that works overnight but every session I feel like I am learning more about myself and how I can change my inner dialogue to better serve myself in life. It is refreshing to be able to express myself to someone who understands me, has a passion for what they do and feel comfortable with. This is my first time trying therapy and I would definitely recommend Richard.
Richard is empathetic towards my problems and I feel comfortable talking to him. I find my sessions very helpful
Helpful, insightful and extremely easy to talk to
Richard helped me identify a possible issue with my relationship with food
Frequently asked questions
Does Richard Cox offer telehealth visits?
Yes. Richard Cox works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.
What language(s) does Richard Cox speak?
Richard Cox speaks English.
How many years of experience does Richard Cox have?
Richard Cox has 7 years of experience.
Where is Richard Cox licensed to practice?
Richard Cox is licensed to practice in the United Kingdom.
Does Richard Cox accept clients outside of the United Kingdom?
No, Richard Cox does not accept clients outside of the United Kingdom.
Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?
Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."
What treatment approaches does Richard Cox offer?
Richard Cox offers clients Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Existential Therapy, Jungian Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, and Trauma-Focused Therapy.
How can I communicate with Richard Cox?
Richard Cox can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.
How do I get started with Richard Cox?
Just tap the CHAT NOW button or tap here: A new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.
Mental health conditions are real, common, and treatable.
And recovery is possible.
When you tap CHAT NOW a new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.